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From mothman shirt, to garfield bag, to beer can tie, to soy boy hoodie & monster hat combo. I contain multitudes.

I wish to peel back your scales & look down your gullet to find the scared boy that was swallowed long ago.

I got these ear muffs in the spring last year…. They made their big debut yesterday and I love them. Now today… I wear my soy boy hat.

I’ve been carved in fire. I stayed down the other night.

This was just my costume for handing out candy with the besties but next year I’m gonna go as a werewolf again but it will be 10x better … TRUST ME…

Embodied what it feels like to be self employed!!! As a little treat for you all you can use code HALLOWEEN at checkout

I was stuck between your teeth. I never second guessed your true intentions. Red & blue illustrations from 2021 & 2023.

Had a nightmare last night that all my teeth were falling out and it reminded me of these drawings. It’s funny, I find that sometimes two pieces of work will parallel one another even if they were made years apart.

Quiet, tall, mysterious… the perfect man. Here’s me styling one of my mothman tees. #mothman

This cursed body of mine. Slide 1-3: digital collage.I made this piece almost two years ago. It was inspired by the fact that I always menstruate on the full moon. You already know the themes. My werewolf transformation is almost complete.

Slide 4-5: this shirt is werewolf transformation proof. I was itching to draw a facial transformation. I had just recently rewatched An American Werewolf In London and knew it was time. This baby is available as a tee up in my shop <3

I’m not much of a man by the light of day but by night I’m one hell of a lover!!! I’m just a sweet tranvestite from Transsexual Transylvania 🦇‼️‼️

Fun fact is that all of these designs came to me in the middle of the night. The soul of Frank-N-Furter possessed me I think.

Okay lip synching debut. Who is he???? #transmasc #hethey #fall #mascfall #queer #fyp

Wearing this shirt is a form of manifestation. I have to be the gayest most off putting person at the gym at all times.

Rearrange my GUTS!!!!!! Get it…… like pumpkin guts…. My sexy pumpkin person transitioned!!!!! Everyone say congratulations!!!!

Shoutout to all the real ones who thought that the beast was hotter in beast form. I will honestly die on that hill.

Monster kissing season is officially here folks… who’s your favourite monster. Drop your best “hear me out” in the comments please I’m BEGGING!!!!

I’m afraid I will always feel misunderstood.

Perhaps it is best to be left unknown. Mothman is just some guy…they’re just like me!!

I am unsure who I am without labour. Being self employed is great, I love what I do. But I often have a hard time separating myself from my work. I always tell others to relax and take breaks and to take care of themselves, but I find myself not taking my own advice.

I often get stuck in this destructive mindset that I have not "earned" to relax, even if rest does not need to be earned. It’s necessary.

And I’ve been vegan for like 8 years so I also have super powers. Maybe I should be him for halloween #toddscottpilgrim

Gender affirming scare!!

I prefer a man that’s tall, dark & handsome (Mothman) I can’t stop making silly tees.. These & more are up on www.oatmilklady.com‼️🎃

Your hunger for control will not guide you to safety. Freedom often comes with sacrifice.

A lot of my writing is just trying to give myself advice. That I really do struggle to take. Over the last two years I have built a new life for myself but I constantly feel like this is all just a dream and things will crumble if I don’t have control over everything. I am going to try to learn to relax and take sometime to be okay with the uncertainty. Life is starting right now, I am tired of feeling like I have to wait for the perfect moment.

I will never forgive humans for abandoning pigeons <3 They are just babies and I want to give them all little kisses.

Real men meow!!!!! :3 MAN UP!!! MEOW BACK AT CATS!!!

In all honesty I started meowing as a bit and now it’s a new vocal stim and I can’t stop. So that is in fact what inspired this tee design🐈‍⬛

GENDER AFFIRMING SCARE!!!

Even monsters, ghouls and ghosts need gender affirming (s)care. I was thinking about how ghosts would have top surgery…… and then this came to me in a vision. I had so so much fun creating this piece it made me feel so nostalgic.

Replying to @(((annyka))) I WANNA KNOW!!! I dont watch the show but I’m so curious…

Grrrrrrrrrr!!!!! This is a safe space for former wolf kids‼️ Making my younger self proud with this wolf portrait I did a while back. I can’t stop and won’t stop making wolf merchandise.

But for real .. I genuinely want to understand the connection between queers and wolves. Balto is so trans masc coded…..he changed lives.

A blessing in disguise 😇😁 my elementary school bullies used to call me a boy when I was a kid….. well… they were onto something

There are have been moments in my life where I see so much of myself in someone that I just want to cry. Times when I see my past self in someone else and just feel as if no matter what I say I just can’t help them.

This can also apply for fictional characters honestly…… the ones where I want to jump into the screen and shake and hug them at the same time. I’m just gonna keep coping with the weight of the world by drawing horses…..

Professional arm wrestler

Let’s hold hands!!! New tees and tanks just landed on www.oatmilklady.com

YES !!!! At 4pm ET Friday <3 super excited about this shop update and also have a ton of new tees that will be available too

Let’s be softer together. It’ll make us tougher. A lot of my recent pieces have been focused on the same theme. It takes so much strength to be gentle.

Peep the yuri on ice shirt I thrifted… Also yes, I do in fact live in my camo hats.

Only one Heaven On Earth Hat left and Soy boy hats are officially sold out but I will be restocking soon❤️💞

This will probably be where we have our next conversation🐇This one did in fact made me cry after I finished it. Available as a print and is now currently 15% off for a limited time.

I don’t think I’ll ever relax at the dinner table.

Some of my digital work. Prints are on sale up in my shop right now! Up to 60% off💫🎂

Big ol 26 today. 4th birthday as Lex. Crazy stuff. Here is a little snippet from a journal entry I wrote the other day. This was taken from pages and pages of rambles. Making a little bday post might just be a new tradition for me. Woke up wanting to hug my 16 year old self today.

Ah yes good old natural talent 😌👆🏻💯 Here’s a little collection of my sketchbooks from the last 8 months⭐️All the work you see from me is from hours & hours of trial & error over the course of YEARS.

The last few months I decided to self teach anatomy and form and have been prioritizing my practice. There is SO much art you folks don’t see from artists. The final pieces you see posted are just the result of so many scribbles and practice.

NORMALIZE UGLY SKETCHBOOKS!!!!! These are just some of mine from the last 8 months⭐️

Been spending a lot of time practicing and making ugly art.

Maybe it was here all along.It’s always been buried deep within me.This was one of the horses I drew this year when I started exploring this new sketchy sticker style.

It’s wild to see the growth comparing this to my most recent unicorn piece. I’m excited to see how my new work changes over the next year ✨💞

You cannot wield steel into velvet. But your edges will dull over time💫💫 Super proud of how this piece turned out ⭐️

FERAL SUMMER IS EVERY YEAR BABY!!!! Just added this cutie up as a tank up in my shop🎀

You cannot wield steel into velvet. But your edges will dull over time.

Replying to @karim.aguilar2022 yes!!! With the purchase of a tattoo ticket you can get my work tattooed 💞‼️

Every trans masc needs their femme lesbian bestie @kach0wwwwwww 💫❤️‍🔥 So obsessed with how Emily styled the Gender I Hary Know Her embroidered crewneck. You can check that out up in my shop‼️ I also only have 3 soy boy camo hats left in stock.

Even the toughest men BLEED‼️💯 Graphic tees paired with one of my hats are always a classic‼️ #transmasc #queergym

HI AND WELCOME!!!!! My names Lex & I’m the artist behind Oat Milk Lady! It’s been a minute and I’ve got some followers so I thought I’d reintroduce myself 🤠👋 I’m an artist, a poet & a gym rat!!!!

I draw about my big feelings, make silly t-shirts and lift BIG!!! One day I might be posting some gut wrenching art and the next some silly gay shirt I design. I can’t stop the visions….I CONTAIN MULTITUDES!!!!! Thank you for hoping along for the ride!!!🐴

Replying to @Mike yes!!! Prints will be coming soon!! Tysm for all the love #transart #visualpoetry #hethey

Transformation comes at a price I cannot yet afford. I yearn for the day I can mutilate this soft flesh.I’ve drawn horses & canines for trans metaphors…. Now I pressent to you… transgender Hyena.

Been thinking about top surgery. Been thinking about transformation. Been thinking about the price that often comes with change. The discomfort and mutilation of it. The desire to evolve.

I want to forget the sound of my old name. And the smell of my childhood home. Is that too much to ask?

Been drawing a lot of animals I used to draw as a kid. Scribbling away in my sketchbook with crayons, markers, glitter pens, pencils and using an insane amount of glitter stickers. It feels really good, it feels like I’m drawing alongside the kid I used to be⭐️🌈

Locally hated💋❤️‍🔥‼️Happy pride babies!!! These tees and more are up on my pride section on www.oatmilklady.com💫

Your voices are so loud. And I am far too young. My hide will grow tougher. And I will learn not to startle so easily. Drew this little baby in the park last week. Been drawing so many horses again and it feels so nice. Once a horse kid… always a horse kid.

A group of people that hate me?moreLike a fan club?🥰❤️‍🔥

These and more are up on www.oatmilklady.com⭐️